Why isn't everything good to share? An important topic for every person. Very often we share important and intimate things with the wrong people. And so! Here are the three important things that you should rather avoid sharing and telling about yourself. That could be you saved a lot of frustration and negative energy.
1. Don't share old frustrations
Each of us has our own negative stories, incidents, events in our lives that we don't like. Things that have disappointed him, offended him, and hurt him deeply. It is always better to let these old things go from our life and it is better not to discuss them again and again.
This is just as well for you, because by talking about something old you invite it into the present. But so good for the other, because negativity is exhausting. Not only when you experience it, but also when you hear about it. And if the topic is relevant, then seek advice or help. But if the theme and disappointment is something past and old. Leave it in the past.
Right where it belongs. This is good for both you and the other person.
When you talk about the disappointment, even if it's long gone, you're reliving it in the present. And everything you experience in the present becomes your point of attraction. Or in other words, this way you attract more and more things into your life that will disappoint you. And you don't want that, do you?
2. Don't Share Your Future Goals
This is also good for you and the other person. You may not like it, but if you keep your goals to yourself, you don't waste their energy. The probability of realizing your goal is much greater if you have not shared it with others. The moment you share it, you will immediately feel the negative energy and mistrust in the other person, even if he doesn't say it, you will feel it. However, the distrust of the other is the fruit of his experience, refracted through the prism of his own capabilities.
Imagine you had a brilliant idea. You share it. However, the other person does not like the idea at all, because he himself has gone through different experiences in his life, has different abilities and looks at life through a different prism. Moreover, he mentally denies it. And even if he doesn't tell you, your instinct will pick up on distrust and negativity and automatically dampen your enthusiasm.
Many brilliant and beautiful ideas have been destroyed in their infancy, even before they put out the first sprout and grow upwards.
See also: Indian sages recommend keeping these 7 things a secret
3. Don't share your happiness with everyone
We live in a society of ostentatiousness. Happiness is especially on display. We rush to share on social networks, (and not only there 😉 absolutely everything wonderful that has come into our lives. And not to share, but to feed our ego. We have all heard that happiness loves silence and this is not said by chance. Happiness likes to be present untainted.
It's very important with whom you choose to share happiness you are. Whether those with whom you share it are well-intentioned towards you and truly think well of you or not. Because let's not kid ourselves, not everyone is happy that you're okay. Share your happiness with the right people. Only then is it good for you.
Author: MILENA GOLEVA
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I already know, I won't share!