Lessons of the Universe: The Rule of Three Signals

The three signal rule is expressed in checking at different levels.

If you haven't taken the path that was laid out for you, The universe tries to warn you about this using 3 signals:

The first signal – weak and insignificant.

The problem is small. The first signal is usually missed.

Then the higher powers submit the second signal.

It is stronger than the first one. You will find yourself in a difficult situation. You will notice this signal if you listen carefully the signs of the universe.

The third signal is strongest in intensity.

It comes when you haven't noticed the first two. This is a serious problem, even a disaster.

In this way, the Universe is trying to shake you up and point you in the right direction.

Watch closely for signs of the universe

If you are in a difficult situation, rewind the events and remember what the second signal was so that you can prevent a serious problem from occurring next time.

The ability to see the first signal comes with experience.

The situations outwardly look different, but their essence is the same.

Life example:

A woman, married, insecure in herself, looking for love and approval from the outside.

• The first signal - her husband says: "No one needs you, so stick to me." The woman is extremely uncomfortable to hear these words, but in the end she "swallows" them because they have a child and have to suffer.

• The second signal - the husband makes a scene of jealousy in a public place. Now even strangers know about the troubles in their relationship. They say to her: “How can you live with him? He doesn't respect you.'' The woman feels shame, humiliation, but again does nothing to change her life.

• The third signal - the situation escalates, it comes to the use of force.

The universe in the person of her husband is trying to explain to the woman that this attitude towards her is unacceptable.

Many people, unfortunately, continue to live in such conditions. The 3 signal rule continues to work for them continuously until they decide to take another path.

The conditions under which the 3 signals rule is triggered:

1. You make a promise to change your life

When you make the loud statement: "From tomorrow I start running in the morning!", the universe is sure to check you. It asks you the question, “Are you really going to do it?” three times, and you really end up in situations where you are faced with the dilemma of whether to run in the morning or not.

2. You are changing

You declare: "I end the vows of poverty, chastity, etc!".

Then you get three challenges. If you overcome them and conform to the new paradigm, the provocations stop.

Often the person who is the catalyst for you, the main provocateur, ceases to be so if you have resisted three times.

Then everything dissipates and the new line of behavior is fixed, you make a leap from one reality to another.

3. You're going the wrong way

You already know the universal laws and are moving towards the goal, based on spiritual principles. But at some point something makes you deviate from the right path.

Check at different levels

Sometimes you can pass the test the first time. It depends on whether you are attentive to the signals of the universe. It also depends on the importance of the issue you are working on.

Feel the difference - cross the river in good weather or during a storm. The level of trial is different.

Saying "no" to a stranger when you're just learning to set boundaries or say no to a beloved mom who's used to having everything done according to her orders. These, you agree, are completely different situations?

How to help loved ones spot these signals

When people close to you are in trouble, the signals from the outside are easier to recognize than when it happens to you personally. If you notice their manifestation in the lives of your loved ones, help them see them. But as a rule, people do not want to listen to advice from outside, even from relatives.

Keep the following recommendations in mind:

1. Don't take advice during a conflict - they won't listen to you. The result of your help depends on the intention with which you do it. People subconsciously read the message you are coming to them with.
2. Use neutral phrases, don't lecture.
3. Lower the expectation that people should do exactly as you want them to do.
4. Be patient and wait for the moment when the person is ready to hear exactly that piece of information.

It won't be long before the right occasion to express your opinion will surely arise.

If your life is full of such signals, then it's time to think about where your inaction can lead you!

Author: Nadia Chankova

Source: dama.bg