Leave on time

Leave on time. For home - even if no one is waiting for you there. From the celebration - without drinking the last cup. From failed relationships. From bad habits. From depression and gloomy thoughts. From the hard memories. Of frayed relationships and the people who ruin them. Or from the person next to you.

Don't wait for the moment when you are pressured by circumstances, when you are forced to make a decision under unfavorable conditions, when you are pressured by public opinion, when you move away from your true and cherished dreams and desires and try to "save" something

If you are no longer able for some reason to give someone what makes them feel good, don't deprive them of trying and hoping to find that something in other relationships or in themselves. Don't take away the chance for others to be happy in a way that they understand. Because each of us is at our own point of development, moves to our own rhythm, emits at our own frequency and experiences our own experience.

And if you are in resonance with someone - then you have discovered yourself and are dancing a common dance. If you are in long-term dissonance, take the experience from the relationship, sign it, say thank you and... leave on time.

Don't wait for the moment

in which, pressed by the circumstances, you will be forced to make a decision under unfavorable conditions for you, when overshadowed by public opinion, which has no business entering and discussing your true, sincere and cherished dreams and desires and motives, you will try to "save" something and to "save" someone.

Leave in time, don't leave deep scars in the body of your life, don't infect your soul with the insatiable virus of guilt that persistently repels you from your unique and unique life.

Value your life more than others value it.

Leave in time if someone puts their life before yours. No one came into this world to be offered on the sacrificial altar. Life is not given to man to sacrifice the greatest gift - his own life and the ability to love.

It's easy to lose yourself, to melt into someone else's life and into someone else's reality. The hard part is finding yourself. Only you can determine the measure for yourself and allow its use. To sacrifice yourself in vain or to give your life to participate in another's is wasted effort.

All relationships in which there is exchange, interaction, commitment are fruitful. This is a dance for two. But if you have already begun to step on your feet to the point of pain, you should stop this dance and, after healing the wounds, start a new, more beautiful one. Maybe with a new partner. And this applies to all relationships - family, business, friendship.

Learn to leave on time

both within a specific situation and from frequently recurring circumstances in your life. You always know when that moment has arrived. Trust yourself, do not convince yourself, do not lie to yourself and do not lie to others.

There are no bad people, however much you may disagree with it sometimes. Just there are people who are different from you. And in the priesthood called life, there is no other responsibility than to yourself.

Everything that happens in your life, everything that happens around you happens with your permission. You allow life to be what it is. You allow shades of gray to prevail in it, you allow fear… you allow yourself to be an outsider in your own life.

Look around, maybe it's time to walk away from it all.

It's hard, but doing it on time is really necessary. Ripen in your eternity as necessary, but…. leave on time

Get away from the ratings and opinions of others in time,

look at yourself. Do not look for your support in others. She's not there! Just as there is no happiness in anyone or anything if it is not in you. After all, this is the only way you can rediscover your world.

Get away from illusions and obsessive fears in time, but keep striving, dreaming, trying, moving forward. Don't be afraid of mistakes - you tried anyway. Don't be afraid of other people's opinions - you can't predict it anyway until you do what you've decided. It just moves forward!

The truth is simple – everything happens on time. Even miracles. So leave on time. And don't hold anyone back. Because that's how you rewrite the script of your life, but also of someone else's life.

A collection of guided meditations by Milena Goleva

Author: Tatyana Varukha

Translated by Nikola Belopitov

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