12 realized truths when we give up something

Often giving up on something or someone has nothing to do with showing weakness. On the contrary, this decision shows personal strength. We give up and leave not because we want the universe to realize how valuable we are as people, but because we ourselves have finally realized our worth. It has to do with realizing how much you are worth yourself and thus see through and reject negative ideas, habits and people in your life.

Here they follow 12 realized truths, to think about before giving up something.

1. The past can steal your present if you let it. You can spend days and weeks sitting alone in a dark room, overanalyzing situations that have been in order to put the pieces together and imagine what could or could not possibly have happened. Or to leave all this, because it is unchangeable, and look forward to the day. Help yourself not to let the past rule your life with Milena Goleva's video: If something is in the past, don't talk about it anymore

2. Not everyone and everything in life is meant to stay. Things happen that we don't want, but we have to accept. Things we don't want to understand but must learn. People we can't live without, we must set free. Some personalities and circumstances come in and out of our way to make us stronger people. The point is that without them our development as people is impossible.

3. Happiness is not the absence of problems, but the ability to deal with them. Always look at what you have, not what you've lost. And think what to do with what you own now.

4. Sometimes you just have to give your best and leave yourself to everything else.

5. There's only one person you control in your life, and that's yourself. There is only one path to happiness and that is to stop worrying about everything that is out of your control.

6. Accept that what is right for you may be wrong for others. And vice versa. Think for yourself and allow others the privilege of thinking for themselves. We all dance to the beat of different drums in our lives.

7. Some people will refuse to accept you for who you are. However, always choose to stay true to yourself. Even at the risk of causing ridicule. We can even be the most beautiful, delicious red apple in the world and there will still be people who don't like apples.

8. True relationships can only exist on a solid foundation of truth. When there is a breakdown in communication, the tough talk must always follow.

9. The world changes when you change. Practice really seeing what you are looking at. You are where your past thoughts and perceptions have taken you. Tomorrow you will be where they take you. If you want to change your life, you must first change your perspective.

10. You can make decisions or you can make excuses. Life is a continuous exercise in creative problem solving. A mistake isn't a failure until you refuse to correct it. Learn more in Milena Goleva's video Don't make excuses! We all have 24 hours at our disposal

11. It usually only takes a few negative remarks to kill a person's dream. Don't kill people's dreams with negative words and don't agree with those who do.

12. Sometimes walking away is the only way to win. Never waste your time trying to explain why you acted the way you did to people who have proven they don't understand you. Defend your intelligence with actions, not explanations.

The meditation that will help you deal with the difficult moments you had and have in your life: Clearing negative experiences and FORGIVENESS by Milena Goleva

Source: obekti.bg