I learned -
that you can't make someone love you.
You can only be someone
who can be loved.
The rest depends on the other.
I learned -
that no matter how much you care
some people just don't care.
I learned -
that it takes years to build trust
and only seconds to destroy it.
I learned -
that it doesn't matter what you have in your life
what matters is who you have in your life.
I learned -
that you can count on your charm
about fifteen minutes.
Then you better know something.
I learned -
that you shouldn't compare yourself
with the best that others can do,
and with the best you can do.
I learned -
that it doesn't matter what happens to people
What matters is what they do about it.
I learned -
that in a second you can do something
which will hurt you for the rest of your life.
I learned -
that no matter how precisely you cut,
there will always be two sides.
I learned -
that it takes a long time
to become the person you want to be.
I learned -
that is much easier
reacting instead of thinking.
I learned -
that you must always separate
with those you love with words of love.
This might be the last time you see each other.
I learned -
that you can move on
long after you've decided you can't do it anymore.
I learned -
that we are responsible for what we do
no matter what we feel.
I learned -
that you either control your attitude towards people
or it controls you.
I learned -
that no matter how passionate and violent
is a relationship from the beginning
passion passes and it would be good to have
something else to take its place.
I learned -
that heroes are people
who do what needs to be done
when it needs to be done
regardless of the consequences.
I learned -
that learning to forgive takes practice.
I learned -
that there are people who sincerely love
but they just don't know how to show it.
I learned -
that money is a lousy way to measure your success.
I learned -
that with our best friend we can do anything
or nothing and still have a great time.
I learned -
that sometimes the people you expect
get kicked while you're on the ground
will be these that will help you to get up again
I learned -
that sometimes when we are angry
we have a right to be angry
but that doesn't give us the right
to be cruel.
I learned -
that true friendship continues to grow
even over long distances.
The same goes for true love.
I learned -
that because someone doesn't love you
the way you want him to love you
this does not mean
that he doesn't love you with all his heart.
I learned -
that maturity much more depends
from what experience you have gained
and what did you learn from it
and much less
from how many birthdays you celebrated.
I learned -
that you should never tell a child
that his dreams are impossible or strange.
Few things are more humiliating, and what
it would be a tragedy if they believed you.
I learned -
that your family is not always there
to support. It may seem strange,
but people you are not related to
they can care for you and love you
and teach you to trust people again.
Families are not biological.
I learned -
that no matter how good a friend someone is,
he will hurt you
Occasionally
and you must forgive him for that.
I learned -
that it is not always enough
to be forgiven by others.
Sometimes you have to learn
forgive yourself.
I learned -
that no matter how bad
your heart is broken
the world doesn't stop because of your grief.
I learned -
that the origin and circumstances
may have influenced who we are,
but they are not responsible for who we will become.
I learned -
that sometimes when my friends fight
I have to take sides
even if I don't want to.
I learned -
that just because two people are fighting
doesn't mean they don't love each other.
And that just because they don't fight,
doesn't mean they love each other.
I learned -
that sometimes you have to put the person
before his actions.
I learned -
that we don't need to change our friends
if we understand that friends change.
I learned -
that we should not be so
insistent that we discover some secret.
It can change our lives forever.
I learned -
that two people can
looking at the same thing
but to see something completely different.
I learned -
that no matter how hard you try to protect
your children, something will hurt them
and it will hurt you too.
I learned -
that there are many ways to fall in love
and stay in love.
I learned -
that regardless of the consequences,
those who are honest with themselves,
get further in life.
I learned -
that no matter how many friends you have,
if you are their support
you will feel lonely and lost
when you need them most.
I learned -
that your life can be changed
for hours, by people
who don't even know you.
I learned -
that even when you think
that you have nothing more to give
when a friend calls for help,
you will find the strength to help.
I learned -
that writing, like speaking,
can ease emotional pain.
I learned -
that the paradigm we live in
is not all that is offered to us.
I learned -
that the merits of the wall
they do not make us respectable human beings.
I learned -
that people, of that you hold most in life
you are taken away too soon.
I learned -
that although the word "love"
can have many different meanings,
it loses value when overused.
I learned -
that is difficult to determine
where to draw the line
between being good and
not to hurt people's feelings
and standing up for what you believe in.
Source: Chestilishte
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