No one leaves anyone behind, just one is ahead - 25 tips from Mihail Litvak

Mikhail Litvak is a world-renowned psychologist and psychotherapist, candidate of medical sciences and author of a number of books on practical and popular psychology. He developed and was the first to put into practice a system of conflict resolution called "psychological aikido".

Check out the following 25 of his thoughts that will help you solve many life questions:

1. No one is leaving anyone behind, it's just that one is ahead and the one behind feels abandoned.

2. Depression is given to a person precisely for this - to think about himself.

3. When a person cannot say anything good about himself, but wants to, he starts talking bad about others.

4. If you only think good things about yourself, then why would anyone else think the same way?

5. Better to communicate with a good book than with an empty person.

6. The ability to love and tolerate loneliness are indicators of spiritual maturity. We have achieved our greatest achievements when we were alone.

7. I don't know the path to success. But I know one sure way to failure - it's the desire to please everyone.

8. There is no male and female logic - there is an ability or inability to think competently.

9. Do you want to find out who your main enemy is? Look in the mirror. If you deal with him, everyone else will run away.

10. Friends are pleasant to communicate with. With enemies it is useful.

11. There is only one valid reason for separations and dismissals - the impossibility of personal growth in the given circumstances.

12. The immature person often knows but cannot. Mature not only knows, but can. This is precisely why immature individuals criticize and mature individuals act.

13. With both friends and enemies share only your joy. The friend will rejoice, the enemy will be bitter.

14. Don't chase happiness, but find the place where it is. It's yourself. The way to it is maximum development of all your abilities.

15. Happiness is a "by-product" of properly organized actions.

16. Dependence on someone else's evaluation is the worst addiction.

17. If you can't trust a person with your soul, don't trust them with your body.

18. To see, you have to open your eyes. In order to see, you must also think.

19. If you live with a wolf, howl like a wolf. But that doesn't mean you have to turn into a wolf.

20. When you communicate with someone, do not forget that he has a good opinion of himself.

21. You don't learn navigation in a storm.

22. Psychological conflict leads to destruction - either you leave the battlefield or you get sick.

23. Happiness is when "I want", "I can" and "I should" have the same content.

24. Bad feelings are those that remain after good sex.

25. Have you started to think - decide, have you decided - act.

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