A person fails his own life

You want to have more Good luck in life. Everyone wants it. I want him. However, people do not understand that success does not mean to have more than anything. I know this may sound shocking or disappointing to you. But that's the way things are.

You already have what it takes to succeed. Success comes when you give up something you already have.

The problem is that your life is cluttered with a lot of junk that prevents you from realizing your potential and achieving success. You have to get rid of them.

Success is a process of elimination. You have to let go of the behavior that doesn't bring you success in order to free up space for your quality and productive behavior. To do that, you need to identify the things that are holding you back.

I used to say that there are only three reasons why people don't succeed:

People are stupid.

People are lazy.

People don't care.

In time I've changed my mind somewhat on this. I had a few extra years of confronting human stupidity and analyzing why people don't achieve their goals, why they are broke, unhappy, unsuccessful, and many other NON-things. I also talked a lot with people who failed in all kinds of fields and listened to all kinds of people grumbles and excuses. After serious consideration of their situation and their failure, I expanded my basic list from three points to ten.

10 Reasons Why People Screw Themselves:

People are ignorant.
People are stupid.
People are lazy.
People don't care.
People have no imagination.
People have low expectations.
People don't realize the consequences of their actions.
People have bad habits.
People have bad role models.
People don't have plans.
People are ignorant.

Now let's talk about ignorance!

Ignorance is the only one of the ten reasons people screw themselves up that is somewhat forgivable.

That's the one thing you're not entirely responsible for. By my definition, ignorance means you don't know how to do something, be something, or have something. You are ignorant. Maybe you are uneducated or just don't know what the best options are. Telling someone they are ignorant is in most cases taken as an insult.

However, according to my definition, this is not required. We are all born ignorant. It's not our fault. We have no information. We are like a whiteboard waiting for some initial data to start making informed decisions.

In the beginning, the solutions are very easy. I am sleepy. I'm hungry. I have colic.

Once we learn how to meet our basic needs – like babies – we move to a new level. From sleeping and hunger we move to walking and talking. Then we grow up some more and our ignorance also transfers to other areas. There was a time when we didn't know how to add and subtract. We didn't know the alphabet by heart. Then we learned it and our life changed. However, we have all been ignorant of these things for a while. Over time, things that we didn't know have changed. We didn't know any specific historical facts, we weren't familiar with business tricks, we couldn't use a computer...

As we received more information our board filled up and our ignorance diminished; we started making more serious and important decisions because we had more knowledge.

There was a time when I didn't know what kind travel benefits. A time when I wasn't familiar with how the different forks were used. A time when I couldn't play golf. A time when I knew nothing about different wines. A time when I thought saucier was a sex thing. There was so much I didn't know. I was quite ignorant.

Every time I learned something new, my life changed. There are still countless things I have no idea about. Areas where I am completely ignorant. But I'm working on it. Every day I try to reduce my ignorance at least a little bit.

There are things I will surely remain ignorant of for the rest of my life. And that probably doesn't matter at all. For example, I don't think I would need to know every detail about life in the Byzantine Empire. For some people this knowledge will be essential, but for me - no thanks. Being ignorant about things that have nothing to do with your success is not that important, but to be ignorant of matters closely related to work, to your interests, to your life, is unacceptable.

You can't afford to be ignorant about money, business, raising children, your health or your job.

It's okay to be ignorant for a while. You can afford to be ignorant for a while. You can go without the right information for a while and excuse yourself by saying, "Well, I don't know." (By the way, saying you don't know something when you really don't is better than pretending to you know, when you have no idea what it's about.) You can justify some of your failures with the line, "I had no idea about that."

In a word, for a while you can drive somehow like this without knowing things. But only for a short while. In fact, there are people who spend their entire lives not knowing enough about anything. You see them every day. Maybe they are your relatives, or neighbors, or sleep in the next room. They are ramble through life, without even suspecting why bad things keep happening to them and why everything is so difficult and nasty.

If you're still not convinced of what I'm telling you, just turn on the TV. Watch Jay Leno interview people on the streets and ask them who the Vice President of the United States is or what city the White House is in and most don't know. Some of these people are so stupid that Jay has turned them into actual celebrities and uses them frequently on his show, poking fun at their ignorance. I also think these idiots are funny sometimes, but most of the time I hate them and am ashamed of their stupidity.

Wake up!

There comes a time when every person must stop making excuses for their ignorance and figure out how to stand on their own two feet. Come on! Look around carefully, see what other people are doing and figure out what works and what doesn't.

Do you remember that old joke: A man goes to a doctor and says, "When I do that, it hurts." And the doctor says, "Well, then don't do it."

At some point you have to realize that your own behavior is hurting you and it's time to stop. Unfortunately, few actually stop. Most continue to live with the consequences of their stupidity.

Some people will have a hard time taking the necessary steps to learn how to change their lives. They must be shown the better way. They need to be told exactly what to do. Many of us are not good at taking initiative. These people need someone else to look at their lives, tell them what they're doing is super dumb, and hand them a list of things they need to change.

Are there things you really want to know or need to know that you don't?? Is there information that will help you be more successful, healthier, wealthier and happier, or a better parent? The answer to all of these questions is a resounding yes.. So what are these things?

I am warning you that the moment has come. Be ready to write them down. Yes, now. Don't say to yourself, "I'll wait a bit" or "I'll think about it later." You won't. I know it very well, as you do. Don't miss it. Just do it. Prove to yourself that you are ready for a change and put the pen to work.

Make a list of "Things I Don't Know":

Have you completed the list yet? If you're not, you can count this as another time you said you wanted to do something to achieve your goals, but didn't do anything about it. You have proven once again that you are a simple observer of other people's success. You have no serious intention to do anything specific for your own development. We talk well with you, but everything remains as it is, in words. Shame on you.

If you've filled out the list, then we've made progress. You just enrolled in our University of Success! now at work - start filling your knowledge gaps in the areas that are vitally important to you.

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author: Larry Winget; book excerpt Don't be an idiot! Don't screw yourself up!”