{"id":3111,"date":"2020-09-19T08:34:00","date_gmt":"2020-09-19T06:34:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/flow.bg\/?p=3111"},"modified":"2021-06-03T13:07:08","modified_gmt":"2021-06-03T11:07:08","slug":"%d1%81%d1%80%d0%be%d0%b4%d0%bd%d0%b8%d1%82%d0%b5-%d0%b4%d1%83%d1%88%d0%b8-%d0%b8%d0%bb%d0%b8-%d0%b7%d0%b0-%d1%80%d0%b5%d0%b0%d0%bb%d0%bd%d0%be%d1%81%d1%82%d1%82%d0%b0","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/flow.bg\/fr\/%D1%81%D1%80%D0%BE%D0%B4%D0%BD%D0%B8%D1%82%D0%B5-%D0%B4%D1%83%D1%88%D0%B8-%D0%B8%D0%BB%D0%B8-%D0%B7%D0%B0-%D1%80%D0%B5%D0%B0%D0%BB%D0%BD%D0%BE%D1%81%D1%82%D1%82%D0%B0\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c2mes apparent\u00e9es ou A propos de la r\u00e9alit\u00e9"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Peut-\u00eatre que certains ne seront pas d&#039;accord avec ce qu&#039;ils liront, mais terminez quand m\u00eame ces lignes et r\u00e9fl\u00e9chissez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vous ne trouverez pas votre \u00e2me soeur<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>L&#039;\u00e2me s\u0153ur parfaite n&#039;existe pas. Si vous rencontrez quelqu&#039;un et que vous pensez qu&#039;il est parfait, vous feriez mieux de courir aussi vite que possible dans l&#039;autre sens.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cela doit \u00eatre difficile \u00e0 comprendre, mais vous ne trouverez jamais votre &quot;\u00e2me s\u0153ur&quot; car il n&#039;y a pas d&#039;&quot;\u00e2me s\u0153ur&quot;. Il n&#039;y a probablement personne sur terre avec qui vous \u00eates compl\u00e8tement compatible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright size-large is-resized\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/flow.bg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/man-2933984_1920-1-1024x529.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3115\" width=\"616\" height=\"318\" srcset=\"https:\/\/flow.bg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/man-2933984_1920-1-1024x529.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/flow.bg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/man-2933984_1920-1-300x155.jpg 300w, https:\/\/flow.bg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/man-2933984_1920-1-768x397.jpg 768w, https:\/\/flow.bg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/man-2933984_1920-1-1536x794.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/flow.bg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/man-2933984_1920-1.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 616px) 100vw, 616px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Oui, il y a certains types de personnalit\u00e9 avec lesquels vous serez toujours plus compatibles, et certaines caract\u00e9ristiques physiques qui vous attireront toujours, mais ne confondons pas attirance et compatibilit\u00e9 avec le mythe hollywoodien de \u00ab l&#039;\u00e2me s\u0153ur \u00bb, car ce n&#039;est pas le cas et \u00e7a n&#039;existe pas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Si vous \u00eates un adolescent ou au d\u00e9but de la vingtaine, vous ne me croyez probablement pas ou ne voulez pas me croire, mais r\u00e9pondez \u00e0 cette question :<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Combien de personnes connaissez-vous qui sont avec leur &quot;\u00e2me s\u0153ur&quot;\u00a0? N&#039;importe qui? Non.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Si une \u00e2me s\u0153ur existait s\u00fbrement, vous ou quelqu&#039;un pourriez nommer une c\u00e9l\u00e8bre c\u00e9l\u00e9brit\u00e9 hollywoodienne qui est avec son \u00e2me s\u0153ur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mais pouvez-vous nommer quelqu&#039;un? Je ne peux pas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oui, nous savons que les gens se marient et se mentent \u00e0 eux-m\u00eames et aux autres et disent \u00e0 tout le monde qu&#039;ils ont &quot;celui&quot; qu&#039;ils voulaient vraiment et qu&#039;ils ne pourraient pas \u00eatre plus heureux.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2026 Mais la plupart du temps, ils ne le font pas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/flow.bg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/portrait-3113651_1920-1-1024x682.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3116\" width=\"491\" height=\"327\" srcset=\"https:\/\/flow.bg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/portrait-3113651_1920-1-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/flow.bg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/portrait-3113651_1920-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/flow.bg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/portrait-3113651_1920-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/flow.bg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/portrait-3113651_1920-1-1536x1023.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/flow.bg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/portrait-3113651_1920-1.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 491px) 100vw, 491px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>La plupart des gens apr\u00e8s 30 ans ont depuis longtemps renonc\u00e9 \u00e0 chercher &quot;celui&quot;. Ils ne peuvent pas avoir \u00ab\u00a0celui\u00a0\u00bb - alors ils se contentent de n&#039;importe qui. Cela semble d\u00e9sesp\u00e9r\u00e9 et triste, mais c&#039;est vrai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La v\u00e9rit\u00e9 est que lorsque les gens atteignent un certain \u00e2ge (l&#039;\u00e2ge varie d&#039;une personne \u00e0 l&#039;autre), ils en ont assez de regarder et veulent juste s&#039;installer. Ainsi, leurs normes chutent consid\u00e9rablement (en particulier les femmes) et ils se contentent de qui ils peuvent. S\u00e9rieusement, n&#039;importe qui autour \u00e0 l&#039;\u00e9poque et pr\u00eat \u00e0 s&#039;installer, \u00e0 se marier et\/ou \u00e0 fonder une famille.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Il y a d&#039;innombrables belles femmes avec les normes les plus \u00e9lev\u00e9es qui pensent qu&#039;elles sont trop belles pour quelqu&#039;un, mais apr\u00e8s un certain \u00e2ge (du d\u00e9but \u00e0 la mi-trentaine), elles baissent consid\u00e9rablement leurs normes. Leurs normes sont abaiss\u00e9es et presque n&#039;importe qui peut devenir leur compagnon tant qu&#039;ils sont pr\u00eats \u00e0 s&#039;installer et \u00e0 s&#039;engager.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Croyez-le ou non, c&#039;est ainsi que de nombreuses familles commencent, et selon votre \u00e2ge et d&#039;o\u00f9 vous venez, c&#039;est peut-\u00eatre ainsi que vos parents ont fond\u00e9 votre famille aussi, avec l&#039;un (ou les deux) de vos parents, fatigu\u00e9 et fatigu\u00e9 de chercher, et juste d\u00e9cider de se contenter de celui qui est l\u00e0 \u00e0 ce moment-l\u00e0.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u041c\u043e\u0436\u0435 \u0431\u0438 \u043d\u044f\u043a\u043e\u0438 \u043d\u044f\u043c\u0430 \u0434\u0430 \u0441\u0430 \u0441\u044a\u0433\u043b\u0430\u0441\u043d\u0438 \u0441 \u0442\u043e\u0432\u0430, \u043a\u043e\u0435\u0442\u043e \u0449\u0435 \u043f\u0440\u043e\u0447\u0435\u0442\u0430\u0442, \u043d\u043e \u0432\u0441\u0435 \u043f\u0430\u043a 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