{"id":2164,"date":"2018-12-19T12:29:00","date_gmt":"2018-12-19T10:29:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/flow.bg\/?p=2164"},"modified":"2021-09-11T18:29:17","modified_gmt":"2021-09-11T16:29:17","slug":"kakvo-se-sluchva-kogato-sydim-drugite","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/flow.bg\/fr\/kakvo-se-sluchva-kogato-sydim-drugite\/","title":{"rendered":"Que se passe-t-il lorsque nous jugeons les autres ?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Un jour, le disciple demanda \u00e0 son Ma\u00eetre :<\/p>\n<p>- Dites-moi, Ma\u00eetre, pourquoi tous les sages nous enseignent-ils qu&#039;il ne faut pas juger les autres ? Est-ce si important ? S&#039;il te plait explique moi\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Le professeur, comme il le faisait toujours, n&#039;a pas imm\u00e9diatement r\u00e9pondu \u00e0 la question, mais a plut\u00f4t donn\u00e9 \u00e0 son \u00e9l\u00e8ve un ballon avec de la boue au fond et lui a demand\u00e9 de se tenir devant lui et de commencer \u00e0 gonfler le ballon.<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 Que voyez-vous maintenant ? \u2013 a demand\u00e9 au professeur<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 Je te vois toi et le ballon.<\/p>\n<p>- Gonflez-le un peu plus. - continua le Ma\u00eetre<\/p>\n<p>L&#039;\u00e9l\u00e8ve s&#039;ex\u00e9cuta et le ballon grossit.<\/p>\n<p>- Maintenant que vois tu?<\/p>\n<p>- Maintenant je te vois \u00e0 peine, je vois surtout le ballon, et la boue coule sur ses parois.<\/p>\n<p>- Faites exploser encore plus.<\/p>\n<p>Le ballon grossit encore et le Ma\u00eetre demanda \u00e0 nouveau\u00a0:<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 Que voyez-vous maintenant ?<\/p>\n<p>&quot;Juste le ballon et la boue.&quot; Rien de plus.<\/p>\n<p>- Continuez \u00e0 gonfler le ballon - a dit le professeur et s&#039;est d\u00e9plac\u00e9 un peu sur le c\u00f4t\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>L&#039;\u00e9tudiant a continu\u00e9 \u00e0 jouer avec diligence, mais le ballon ne pouvait plus s&#039;\u00e9tirer et a soudainement \u00e9clat\u00e9, \u00e9clat\u00e9 en morceaux, dispersant partout la boue qui \u00e9tait \u00e0 l&#039;int\u00e9rieur. L&#039;\u00e9tudiant a perdu son don de la parole. Il regarda autour de lui, impuissant... Il \u00e9tait tout \u00e9clabouss\u00e9 de boue.<\/p>\n<p>- Comprenez-vous maintenant ce qui se passe lorsque vous vous concentrez sur les d\u00e9fauts, les faiblesses et les transgressions des autres ? <strong>En jugeant une personne, vous arr\u00eatez de voir la personne elle-m\u00eame<\/strong>. Vous ne voyez que vos propres pens\u00e9es et sentiments critiques et n\u00e9gatifs \u00e0 son sujet. <strong>Et plus vous les attisez, plus il y a de chances que la boue et la salet\u00e9 de ces pens\u00e9es \u00e9claboussent non seulement sur vous, mais aussi sur ceux qui vous entourent.<\/strong>. - le Ma\u00eetre a termin\u00e9 et a laiss\u00e9 l&#039;\u00e9l\u00e8ve seul avec ses pens\u00e9es.<\/p>\n<p>Regardez plus:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/flow.bg\/fr\/2018\/12\/na-shtastlivite-hora-im-se-sluchvat-shtastlivi-neshta\/\"><strong>Des choses heureuses arrivent aux gens heureux<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<h4><strong>La parabole Que se passe-t-il lorsque nous jugeons les autres<\/strong> fait partie de la collection &quot;*<em>IL Y A TOUJOURS DE L&#039;ESPOIR. 150 PARABOLES SUR L&#039;ART DE VIE&quot; aux \u00e9ditions Gnezdoto<strong><br \/>\n<\/strong><\/em><\/h4>\n<p>En savoir plus:<a href=\"https:\/\/flow.bg\/fr\/2017\/11\/16-stapki-kam-duhovno-izrastvane\/\"><strong> 16 \u00e9tapes vers la croissance spirituelle<\/strong><\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>En jugeant une personne, vous arr\u00eatez de voir la personne elle-m\u00eame. Vous ne voyez que vos propres pens\u00e9es et sentiments critiques et n\u00e9gatifs \u00e0 son sujet. Et plus vous les attisez, plus il y a de chances que la boue et la salet\u00e9 de ces pens\u00e9es \u00e9claboussent non seulement sur vous, mais aussi sur ceux qui vous entourent.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":2171,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,3],"tags":[13,62,71,52,35],"class_list":["post-2164","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-madrost","category-pat-kam-shtastieto","tag-13","tag-62","tag-71","tag-52","tag-35"],"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/flow.bg\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2164","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/flow.bg\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/flow.bg\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flow.bg\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flow.bg\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2164"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/flow.bg\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2164\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flow.bg\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2171"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/flow.bg\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2164"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flow.bg\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2164"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flow.bg\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2164"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}