{"id":991,"date":"2017-12-04T13:07:00","date_gmt":"2017-12-04T13:07:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/flow.bg\/?p=991"},"modified":"2021-09-11T18:02:30","modified_gmt":"2021-09-11T16:02:30","slug":"pritcha-za-razstoyanieto-mejdu-sarcata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/flow.bg\/en\/pritcha-za-razstoyanieto-mejdu-sarcata\/","title":{"rendered":"A parable about the distance between hearts"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4>A magical parable about the distance between hearts<\/h4>\n<p>One day the Master asked a question to his disciples:<\/p>\n<p>- Why do you think that when people argue, they start yelling at each other?<\/p>\n<p>- Because they get angry and go &quot;beyond nerves&quot;... - replied one student.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; <strong>But why do they scream so loudly when they are close to each other<\/strong>. - continued the Teacher - Even if you are angry, can&#039;t you speak more gently and quietly?<\/p>\n<div id=\"lo775\">\n<div class=\"sq_local_content\" style=\"position: relative; clear: both; background: white; font-size: 14px; color: #333; max-width: 500px; margin: 5px auto 5px auto; padding: 13px; border: 1px solid #DDD; -webkit-box-shadow: 0 1px 0 #DDD; -moz-box-shadow: 0 1px 0 #ddd; box-shadow: 0 1px 0 #DDD;\">\n<p><a id=\"l_2016\" class=\"sq_local\" style=\"display: block; font-weight: bold; color: #0074b7; line-height: 1.4em; margin-bottom: 5px; text-decoration: none;\" title=\"Blessed is he who gives...\" href=\"https:\/\/flow.bg\/en\/2018\/12\/blessing-e-tozi-koyto-dava\/\">Blessed is he who gives\u2026<\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"sq_local_text\" style=\"font-style: italic; color: #333;\">A young student went for a walk with his teacher. While they were walking and talking, opposite<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<p>The students began to give a variety of answers, but none of them pleased the Master. And finally he explained things to them in the following way:<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 When people fight and are bitter towards each other, their <strong>hearts drift apart<\/strong>. And in order to overcome this distance and hear each other, they have to shout. The bigger their argument, the louder they shout.<\/p>\n<p>And have you noticed what happens when <strong>people are in love<\/strong>? Then it&#039;s the other way around, <strong>they talk to each other softly and gently<\/strong>. Because their hearts are very close to each other - the distance is very small.<\/p>\n<p>What happens when they are even more in love? - continued the Teacher. - Then <strong>they don&#039;t talk, they just whisper to each other<\/strong>\u2026 Their love becomes even stronger and their hearts even closer. Finally, even their whispers become redundant. <strong>They just look into each other&#039;s eyes and understand each other without words<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, when you argue or quarrel with someone, especially a close person, <strong>don&#039;t let your hearts drift away from each other, don&#039;t say harsh words<\/strong>, which further increase the gap between you.<\/p>\n<p>Because there may come a day when <strong>the distance has become so great that none of you can find your way back anymore<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>The parable is part of the collection <strong>THERE IS ALWAYS HOPE. 150 PARABLES ON THE ART OF LIVING<\/strong>, Gnezdoto publishing house<\/p>\n<div id=\"lo572\">\n<div class=\"sq_local_content\" style=\"position: relative; clear: both; background: white; font-size: 14px; color: #333; max-width: 500px; margin: 5px auto 5px auto; padding: 13px; border: 1px solid #DDD; -webkit-box-shadow: 0 1px 0 #DDD; -moz-box-shadow: 0 1px 0 #ddd; box-shadow: 0 1px 0 #DDD;\">\n<p><a id=\"l_1971\" class=\"sq_local\" style=\"display: block; font-weight: bold; color: #0074b7; line-height: 1.4em; margin-bottom: 5px; text-decoration: none;\" title=\"Never argue with the ignorant - a parable about ignorance\" href=\"https:\/\/flow.bg\/en\/2018\/12\/pritcha-za-nevezhestvoto\/\">Never argue with the ignorant - a parable about ignorance<\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"sq_local_text\" style=\"font-style: italic; color: #333;\">There was a very famous artist in India. Everyone liked and accepted his works for<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div>Source: www.gnezdoto.net<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0415\u0434\u043d\u0430 \u0432\u044a\u043b\u0448\u0435\u0431\u043d\u0430 \u043f\u0440\u0438\u0442\u0447\u0430 \u0437\u0430 \u0440\u0430\u0437\u0441\u0442\u043e\u044f\u043d\u0438\u0435\u0442\u043e \u043c\u0435\u0436\u0434\u0443 \u0441\u044a\u0440\u0446\u0430\u0442\u0430 \u0415\u0434\u0438\u043d \u0434\u0435\u043d \u0423\u0447\u0438\u0442\u0435\u043b\u044f\u0442 \u0437\u0430\u0434\u0430\u043b \u0432\u044a\u043f\u0440\u043e\u0441 \u043d\u0430 \u0441\u0432\u043e\u0438\u0442\u0435 \u0443\u0447\u0435\u043d\u0438\u0446\u0438: &#8211; \u0417\u0430\u0449\u043e \u043c\u0438\u0441\u043b\u0438\u0442\u0435, \u0447\u0435 \u043a\u043e\u0433\u0430\u0442\u043e \u0445\u043e\u0440\u0430\u0442\u0430 \u0441\u0435 \u0441\u043a\u0430\u0440\u0430\u0442, \u0437\u0430\u043f\u043e\u0447\u0432\u0430\u0442 \u0434\u0430 \u0441\u0438 \u043a\u0440\u0435\u0449\u044f\u0442? 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