{"id":3178,"date":"2020-11-21T08:36:00","date_gmt":"2020-11-21T06:36:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/flow.bg\/?p=3178"},"modified":"2021-06-03T13:07:05","modified_gmt":"2021-06-03T11:07:05","slug":"%d0%bf%d0%be%d0%bd%d0%b5%d0%b6%d0%b5-%d0%bd%d1%8f%d0%ba%d0%be%d0%b9-%d0%bd%d0%b5-%d1%82%d0%b5-%d0%be%d0%b1%d0%b8%d1%87%d0%b0-%d0%bf%d0%be-%d0%bd%d0%b0%d1%87%d0%b8%d0%bd%d0%b0-%d0%bf%d0%be-%d0%ba","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/flow.bg\/en\/%D0%BF%D0%BE%D0%BD%D0%B5%D0%B6%D0%B5-%D0%BD%D1%8F%D0%BA%D0%BE%D0%B9-%D0%BD%D0%B5-%D1%82%D0%B5-%D0%BE%D0%B1%D0%B8%D1%87%D0%B0-%D0%BF%D0%BE-%D0%BD%D0%B0%D1%87%D0%B8%D0%BD%D0%B0-%D0%BF%D0%BE-%D0%BA\/","title":{"rendered":"Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want doesn't mean they don't love you with all their heart"},"content":{"rendered":"

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that you can't make someone love you.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can only be someone<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

who can be loved.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The rest depends on the other.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that no matter how much you care<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

some people just don't care.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that it takes years to build trust<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

and only seconds to destroy it.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that it doesn't matter what you have in your life<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

what matters is who you have in your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that you can count on your charm<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

about fifteen minutes.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Then you better know something.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that you shouldn't compare yourself<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

with the best that others can do,<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

and with the best you can do.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that it doesn't matter what happens to people<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What matters is what they do about it.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that in a second you can do something<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

which will hurt you for the rest of your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that no matter how precisely you cut,<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

there will always be two sides.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that it takes a long time<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

to become the person you want to be.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that is much easier<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

reacting instead of thinking.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that you must always separate<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

with those you love with words of love.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This might be the last time you see each other.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that you can move on<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

long after you've decided you can't do it anymore.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that we are responsible for what we do<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

no matter what we feel.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that you either control your attitude towards people<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

or it controls you.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that no matter how passionate and violent<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

is a relationship from the beginning<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

passion passes and it would be good to have<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

something else to take its place.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that heroes are people<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

who do what needs to be done<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

when it needs to be done<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

regardless of the consequences.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that learning to forgive takes practice.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that there are people who sincerely love<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

but they just don't know how to show it.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that money is a lousy way to measure your success.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that with our best friend we can do anything<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

or nothing and still have a great time.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that sometimes the people you expect<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

get kicked while you're on the ground<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

will be these that will help you<\/a> to get up again<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that sometimes when we are angry<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

we have a right to be angry<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

but that doesn't give us the right<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

to be cruel.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that true friendship continues to grow<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

even over long distances.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The same goes for true love.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that because someone doesn't love you<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

the way you want him to love you<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

this does not mean<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that he doesn't love you with all his heart.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that maturity much more depends<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

from what experience you have gained<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

and what did you learn from it<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

and much less<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

from how many birthdays you celebrated.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that you should never tell a child<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that his dreams are impossible or strange.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Few things are more humiliating, and what<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

it would be a tragedy if they believed you.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that your family is not always there<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

to support. It may seem strange,<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

but people you are not related to<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

they can care for you and love you<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

and teach you to trust people again.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Families are not biological.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that no matter how good a friend someone is,<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

he will hurt you<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Occasionally<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

and you must forgive him for that.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that it is not always enough<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

to be forgiven by others.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes you have to learn<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

forgive yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that no matter how bad<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

your heart is broken<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

the world doesn't stop because of your grief.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that the origin and circumstances<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

may have influenced who we are,<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

but they are not responsible for who we will become.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that sometimes when my friends fight<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I have to take sides<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

even if I don't want to.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that just because two people are fighting<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

doesn't mean they don't love each other.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And that just because they don't fight,<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

doesn't mean they love each other.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that sometimes you have to put the person<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

before his actions.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that we don't need to change our friends<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

if we understand that friends change.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that we should not be so<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

insistent that we discover some secret.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It can change our lives forever.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that two people can<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

looking at the same thing<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

but to see something completely different.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that no matter how hard you try to protect<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

your children, something will hurt them<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

and it will hurt you too.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that there are many ways to fall in love<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

and stay in love.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that regardless of the consequences,<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

those who are honest with themselves,<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

get further in life.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that no matter how many friends you have,<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

if you are their support<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

you will feel lonely and lost<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

when you need them most.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that your life can be changed<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

for hours, by people<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

who don't even know you.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that even when you think<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that you have nothing more to give<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

when a friend calls for help,<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

you will find the strength to help.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that writing, like speaking,<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

can ease emotional pain.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that the paradigm we live in<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

is not all that is offered to us.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that the merits of the wall<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

they do not make us respectable human beings.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that people, of <\/strong>that you hold most in life<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

you are taken away too soon.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that although the word "love"<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

can have many different meanings,<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

it loses value when overused.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I learned -<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

that is difficult to determine<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

where to draw the line<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

between being good and<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

not to hurt people's feelings<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

and standing up for what you believe in.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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