{"id":2668,"date":"2019-03-19T22:46:11","date_gmt":"2019-03-19T20:46:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/flow.bg\/?p=2668"},"modified":"2021-09-11T23:36:15","modified_gmt":"2021-09-11T21:36:15","slug":"nay-silnoto-lekarstvo-za-koeto-ryadko-se-govori","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/flow.bg\/en\/nay-silnoto-lekarstvo-za-koeto-ryadko-se-govori\/","title":{"rendered":"The strongest medicine that is rarely talked about"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I recently came across this wonderful article published by Manager many years ago.<\/p>\n<p>I thought about the incredible power of Gratitude. About the changes this magical feeling makes to our bodies, to our thoughts, to our mood.<\/p>\n<p>I&#039;ve been writing them all down every day for several months <a href=\"https:\/\/flow.bg\/en\/2017\/12\/9-neshta-koito-vi-pokazvat-che-do-vas-sa-nepodhodyashtite-hora\/\">things for which<\/a> i am grateful The list was initially short, but with each passing day I discover more and more beautiful things for which I am grateful.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong>I discovered an amazing medicine<\/strong>, which instantly changes my mood from bad to good, good to great, and great to fantastic. Not only is it legal, but it&#039;s also free \u2013 and it doesn&#039;t seem to have any side effects.<\/p>\n<h4><strong>My name is Dave and I am addicted to gratitude.<\/strong><\/h4>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>The strongest medicine that is rarely talked about<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>My road to addiction began when I interviewed leaders like Belfort director Sheldon Yellen and Gary Chesick of Chesick Restaurant. They didn&#039;t just talk about the power of gratitude, they practiced it daily.<\/p>\n<p>Then I worked closely with my entrepreneur friend Andy Cohen, who built an entire real estate empire on the foundation of gratitude and service. Then I met the founder of the non-profit Donors Choose, Charles Best, who had literally been able to calculate the rate of return on gratitude in a specially controlled study.<\/p>\n<p>Like any addiction, mine started with the establishment of small habits. I started by sending one thank you card a week. Today, I write three every morning on the train ride to work.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/milenagoleva.com\/chudoto-na-blagodarnostta-v-deystvie\/\">Meditation The Miracle of Gratitude in Action by Milena Goleva will help you build a positive attitude towards the world and life\u00a0<\/a><\/p>\n<h4>The happiness expert<\/h4>\n<p>Sean Archer taught me <strong>how important it is to write down three things I&#039;m grateful for every morning<\/strong>. I started doing that too. Columbia Business School professor Srikumar Rao shared with me the magical effect of remembering five things I&#039;m grateful for before going to bed at night. Now I do that too.<\/p>\n<p>A few weeks ago we lost an important partner who ended their contract with us. The next morning I felt terribly depressed and in no mood for thank you cards. I pushed myself though, and by the time I finished the third, I was already feeling much better and full of hope. <strong>In fact, it is physiologically impossible to feel gratitude and anger or grief at the same time.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>Last week<\/h4>\n<p>I was running on the path at home and at the tenth kilometer I started to feel the exhaustion. I couldn&#039;t do it anymore, but I wanted to run 12 kilometers. So for the next 10 minutes I started saying out loud all the things and people for whose presence in my life I am grateful. When I got to 150 people, I saw that I had reached my goal.<\/p>\n<p>Recently, a father from my town said something bad to my child. I immediately felt anger towards this person and sadness for the unpleasant situation. A year ago I would have been trapped by these emotions.<\/p>\n<p>Yesterday, however, I was quick to change my emotions to gratitude that my wife and I are parents who are very careful about what we say to our own children and to other children. And I immediately felt better.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I start and end team meetings with a moment of gratitude<\/strong> and our company is more productive than ever. Since I&#039;ve been writing and talking about the importance of handwritten thank you notes, I&#039;ve started getting two a day\u2014and that&#039;s an even bigger reason to be thankful.<\/p>\n<h4>The most serious change in my life, however, is in regards to happiness.<\/h4>\n<p>I used to believe that I would never be happy - no matter what, I always wanted more. More money, more companies, more books, more children. I seriously believed that my dissatisfaction was good for me because it kept my ambition and hunger alive.<\/p>\n<p>Now I feel the exact opposite \u2013 I believe I can always be happy because, no matter what, I have so many things to be grateful for. I still have the drive to succeed, but at the same time I&#039;m also happy and that&#039;s amazing.<\/p>\n<p>I&#039;ve become addicted to the feeling of sincere gratitude and I&#039;m not afraid to share it. It fills my days and for the first time in my life I can say that I am very happy.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Dave Kerpen<\/strong>, director of Likeable Local, for Inc.com<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Source: <a title=\"The legal drug no one talks about\" href=\"https:\/\/www.manager.bg\/%d1%83%d0%bf%d1%80%d0%b0%d0%b2%d0%bb%d0%b5%d0%bd%d0%b8%d0%b5\/%d0%bb%d0%b5%d0%b3%d0%b0%d0%bb%d0%bd%d0%b8%d1%8f%d1%82-%d0%bd%d0%b0%d1%80%d0%ba%d0%be%d1%82%d0%b8%d0%ba-%d0%b7%d0%b0-%d0%ba%d0%be%d0%b9%d1%82%d0%be-%d0%bd%d0%b8%d0%ba%d0%be%d0%b9-%d0%bd%d0%b5-%d0%b3%d0%be%d0%b2%d0%be%d1%80%d0%b8?fbclid=IwAR0i5in99jBoQYOxb050nTXfoaByeM2jWSK4KrPjERa0XYdA-EFTGVX8q1M\">www.manager.bg<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>And what are you grateful for NOW?<\/strong> After reading the article, write on a piece of paper all the things you are grateful for. Share in the comments and with all of us, <strong>let&#039;s spread THANKSGIVING today<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Look more: <a href=\"https:\/\/flow.bg\/en\/2018\/11\/kak-da-postignem-harmoniya-chrez-blagodarnost\/\">How to achieve harmony, health and happiness through gratitude?<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Here is the most direct way to gratitude, through the magnificent guided meditation of Milena Goleva with the vocals of opera prima Alexandrina Pendachanska - <a href=\"https:\/\/milenagoleva.com\/chudoto-na-blagodarnostta-v-deystvie\/\">The Miracle of Gratitude in Action<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I recently came across this wonderful article published by Manager many years ago. <\/p>\n<p>I thought about the incredible power of Gratitude. 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