{"id":1115,"date":"2017-12-13T06:58:50","date_gmt":"2017-12-13T06:58:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/flow.bg\/?p=1115"},"modified":"2021-09-11T17:53:56","modified_gmt":"2021-09-11T15:53:56","slug":"kogato-zapochnesh-da-obichash-sebe-si","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/flow.bg\/en\/kogato-zapochnesh-da-obichash-sebe-si\/","title":{"rendered":"When you start loving yourself, you start living"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>This magnificent text is said to be Charlie Chaplin&#039;s 70th birthday speech. To this day, it is not clear who exactly is the author. In this case, however, the beauty and message of this material is more important. Namely: When you start loving yourself, you start living!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>When I began to love myself, I realized that pain and suffering were just warning signs that I was living against my own truth.<strong>Now I know this is called &quot;authenticity&quot;.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When I started to love myself, I realized how much I can affect someone if I push them to fulfill my desires before their time has come, and the person is not ready yet\u2026even if that person is me.<strong>Today I call that &quot;respect&quot;.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When I began to love myself, I stopped longing for another life and saw that everything that surrounded me invited me to grow.<strong>Today I call this &quot;maturity&quot;.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When I started to love myself, I realized that under any circumstances I am in the right place, at the right time, and everything happens at the right moment, so I can be calm.<strong>Now I call this &quot;self-confidence&quot;.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/milenagoleva.com\/obicham-i-haresvam-sebe-si\/\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-1572\" src=\"https:\/\/flow.bg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Obicham_kvadrat-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/flow.bg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Obicham_kvadrat-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/flow.bg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Obicham_kvadrat-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/flow.bg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Obicham_kvadrat-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/flow.bg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Obicham_kvadrat-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/flow.bg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Obicham_kvadrat.jpg 1440w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>When I started loving myself, I stopped stealing from my own time and making grandiose plans for the future. Today I do only what brings me happiness and joy, what I love to do and what excites my heart. I do it in my own way and at my own pace.<strong>Today, I call this \u201csimplicity\u201d.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When I began to love myself, I let go of everything that harmed my health - food, people, things, situations. Everything that pulled me down and away from myself. At first I called this &quot;healthy selfishness.&quot;<strong>Now I know it&#039;s &quot;loving yourself&quot;.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When I loved myself, I stopped trying to always be right, and since then I make fewer mistakes.<strong>Now I understand that this is &quot;modesty&quot;.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/milenagoleva.com\/obicham-i-haresvam-sebe-si\/\">How to learn to Love and Like yourself with the author&#039;s Guided Meditation of Milena Goleva, learn here<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p>When I started loving myself, I stopped living in the past and worrying about the future. Today I live only in the present moment where everything is happening.<strong>Now I live each day for itself and call it &quot;realization&quot;.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When I started to love myself, I realized that my mind could upset me and make me sick. But when I connected it to my heart, it became a valuable ally.<strong>I now call this interconnection &quot;wisdom of the heart.&quot;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>We no longer need to be afraid of arguments, confrontation and any problems with ourselves or others. Even the stars collide, but from their collision new worlds are born.<strong>Now I know, &quot;This is life!&quot;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Source: http:\/\/prit4ite.blogspot.bg\/<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u041a\u0430\u0437\u0432\u0430\u0442, \u0447\u0435 \u0442\u043e\u0437\u0438 \u0432\u0435\u043b\u0438\u043a\u043e\u043b\u0435\u043f\u0435\u043d \u0442\u0435\u043a\u0441\u0442 \u0435 \u0440\u0435\u0447\u0442\u0430 \u043d\u0430 \u0427\u0430\u0440\u043b\u0438 \u0427\u0430\u043f\u043b\u0438\u043d \u043f\u043e \u043f\u043e\u0432\u043e\u0434 70-\u0442\u0430\u0442\u0430 \u043c\u0443 \u0433\u043e\u0434\u0438\u0448\u043d\u0438\u043d\u0430. \u0418 \u0434\u043e \u0434\u0435\u043d \u0434\u043d\u0435\u0448\u0435\u043d \u043d\u0435 \u0435 \u044f\u0441\u043d\u043e \u043a\u043e\u0439 \u0442\u043e\u0447\u043d\u043e \u0435 \u0430\u0432\u0442\u043e\u0440\u044a\u0442. \u0412 \u0441\u043b\u0443\u0447\u0430\u044f \u043e\u0431\u0430\u0447\u0435 \u043f\u043e-\u0432\u0430\u0436\u043d\u0430 \u0435 \u043a\u0440\u0430\u0441\u043e\u0442\u0430\u0442\u0430 \u0438 \u043f\u043e\u0441\u043b\u0430\u043d\u0438\u0435\u0442\u043e \u043d\u0430 \u0442\u043e\u0437\u0438 \u043c\u0430\u0442\u0435\u0440\u0438\u0430\u043b. \u0410 \u0438\u043c\u0435\u043d\u043d\u043e: \u041a\u043e\u0433\u0430\u0442\u043e \u0437\u0430\u043f\u043e\u0447\u043d\u0435\u0448 \u0434\u0430 \u043e\u0431\u0438\u0447\u0430\u0448 \u0441\u0435\u0431\u0435 \u0441\u0438, \u0437\u0430\u043f\u043e\u0447\u0432\u0430\u0448 \u0434\u0430 \u0436\u0438\u0432\u0435\u0435\u0448! 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